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Advice · July 2025

5 things to consider before trying on a wedding dress.

Trying on a wedding dress for the first time is exciting — but it can also be overwhelming. Over the years I've spoken to so many brides about this journey, the good and the not-so-good. Here are a few tips to help you make the right choice.

Bride in a one-shoulder bespoke wedding gown by Sarah Stoute, Christchurch

1 · Know your budget

Be clear about your budget before you start trying on dresses. Wedding dresses vary widely in price, so a realistic budget helps you narrow your options — and avoids heartbreak if you fall for a dress outside your range.

2 · Dress for comfort, forget the frills

Brides often do their hair, makeup and tan to get the “full look.” But white dresses pick up every mark, and seeing the most raw version of yourself helps you choose a dress that shows off your natural beauty. Leave the frills for the day itself. Wear comfortable beige underwear and a strapless bra so you get a true sense of how the dress fits and feels.

3 · Be open to different styles

Even with a dream dress in mind, try on different styles. Sometimes what you think you want doesn't suit your body or your vision — and you find something unexpected that feels even better. Trust the bridal specialists in the store, the way you'd trust a hairdresser or mechanic. These women know their stuff.

4 · Bring a supportive crew

Bring a few close friends or family, but don't overload the group — too many opinions make the decision harder. Choose people who are supportive, positive, and whose judgement you trust. This can make or break an appointment, so if they don't fill your cup, they shouldn't be invited.

5 · Go for inspiration, not just ready-made dresses

Even if you're leaning towards a bespoke dress, visiting boutiques is valuable. I often advise brides to go and try on dresses to see what's on the table, off the table, and a must. Take the chance to be inspired — and make sure your dream dress isn't already out there.

Common Questions

What should I do before my first wedding dress appointment?

Set a clear budget, wear comfortable beige underwear and a strapless bra, keep your hair and makeup natural, bring a small supportive group, and go open to different styles for inspiration.

What should I wear to try on wedding dresses?

Wear comfortable beige underwear and a strapless bra, and keep your look natural — white dresses pick up makeup and tan, and seeing yourself raw helps you judge the dress.

How many people should I bring to a bridal appointment?

Bring only a few close people whose judgement you trust — too many opinions make the decision harder.

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