DO · buy shoes that are comfortable
Obvious, but crucial — you'll wear these for 8–10 hours. If you're uncomfortable, that's what you'll remember. Wear them in around home, to work, even practising your first dance, so they feel good on the day and any blisters heal beforehand. Wedding shoes can often be resold to other brides, which makes the investment even sweeter.
DON'T · buy them thinking you'll “just take them off”
I often hear “it doesn't matter, I'll take them off later.” But you'll be in them for the first 4–6 hours — getting-ready photos, the ceremony, canapés, cake cutting, photos and your first dance. Your dress is hemmed while you wear your shoes, so the right pair keeps your dress looking perfect in photos. Kick them off for dancing — just do it after the photos.
DO · consider the shape of your dress
Whether your dress is a mermaid, a princess poof or something silky, the right shoe shape makes a difference. Pointed shoes lift the hem as you walk, letting a fitted skirt lie flat and part beautifully. For fuller skirts or dresses with cleavage, open-toed shoes are a lovely option — and less likely to catch as you move.
DON'T · buy white shoes without checking the shade
There are countless shades of white. Make sure your shoes match the shade of your dress — the wrong one can make your dress look dirty or your shoes look off. Matching the two is as important as choosing the right shape.
DO · consider the flooring you'll walk on
Beach, grass, hardwood, stones or concrete — the surface should guide your choice. If you're taking a helicopter ride or crossing rocky ground, stilettos may not be ideal. Block heels give stability on grass and cobbles; heel-less shoes are perfect for sand.
DON'T · forget the flat lay
The flat lay is when your photographer captures all your details together — rings, veil, flowers, stationery, jewellery and your shoes. Shoes that tie into your colours enhance that story. I've seen brides match their shoes to the groom's bowtie or their florals, so the shoes can be worn again and don't immediately scream “bridal.”
Choosing wedding shoes shouldn't be taken lightly — comfort, the shape of your dress, the venue and the style all matter. Whether you go for elegant heels or stylish flats, make sure they reflect your style and comfort. Happy shoe shopping, brides!